Congratulations on your baby. Could you explain the feeling when you first held him in your arms?
Thank you so much. Holding my baby for the first time was like feeling a surge of overwhelming love and joy flood through me. It was an indescribable moment of pure happiness, connection and responsibility.
What has been the most rewarding part of being a mother?
The most rewarding part of being a mother is witnessing my child grow, learn, and thrive. Seeing their milestones and knowing that I played a part in shaping their journey is incredibly fulfilling.
What has been one thing you are grateful for after having your baby?
The power that comes with being a woman, the ability to create life as a woman. I have never appreciated or been grateful for being a woman, as much as I do now.
Late nights, early mornings, erratic schedules, all must be so much to handle. What is keeping you sane in this time?
What’s keeping me sane during the challenging times of late nights and erratic schedules is practicing self-care, leaning on my support system, and finding moments of joy in the midst of chaos. Taking massages, doing some deep breathing and eating well has really helped me.
What is one piece of advice you would like to give your younger self who found the whole process tough?
If I could give my younger self advice, it would be to continue to trust my instincts, be patient with myself, and know that investing in my health is the biggest and best investment I can make. Because ultimately having a baby naturally at 40-41 can only happen if you have been kind to your body and mind, and had a healthy lifestyle.
How are you ensuring your mental health and physical health is intact?
I’m ensuring my mental and physical health by prioritizing self-care activities such as gentle exercise, mindfulness and meditation (even if it is just 10-20 deep breaths before eating a meal), and seeking support from loved ones and professionals when needed. Taking massages post-partum have greatly helped with blood circulation that has helped me feel more relaxed as well.
Are there any particular books or reference material that is helping you understand motherhood?
I read a lot online, watch videos, join short online courses conducted by doctors, midwives, and lactation experts to educate myself and keep updated. I haven’t read a whole book, but I do a lot of random reading all the time.
Can you share with us the story behind your son’s name and its significance to you and your family?
We wanted a Sanskrit name that was strong in our roots, and reflects our culture. Yuvaan is another name for Shankar Bhagwan and also means young and healthy. I chose it and everyone in the family loved it.
How has your perspective on life changed since becoming a mother?
My perspective on life has changed since becoming a mother, as I now see the world through the eyes of my child and prioritize their well-being above all else. Parenthood has taught me the true meaning of unconditional love and sacrifice.
What has been the most surprising thing about motherhood for you?
The most surprising thing about motherhood for me has been the depth of emotions and the capacity to love and provide unconditionally. It’s a profound experience that I couldn’t have fully understood until I became a mother myself.
Have you discovered any unexpected talents or strengths within yourself since becoming a mother?
Since becoming a mother, I’ve discovered a newfound resilience and patience within myself. I’ve unlocked a hidden talent as well: engaging in late-night serenades of lullabies and nursery rhymes while expertly using my new found burping techniques. Embracing hands-on parenting has led to delightful “baby conversations,” which have become the highlight of my day—a newfound skill I never knew I had until now.
Balancing a career and motherhood can be challenging. How do you plan to manage both aspects of your life moving forward?
I’m going to take it as it comes. Having an encouraging and supportive family to help me is a boon, what more could one ask for?
Are there any specific values or lessons you hope to instill in your son as he grows up?
I hope to instill values of kindness, empathy, and resilience in my son as he grows up, along with a strong sense of identity and cultural pride.
How do you envision your son’s upbringing in terms of cultural heritage and traditions?
In terms of cultural heritage and traditions, I envision exposing my son to our family’s customs, language, and celebrations, while also encouraging him to explore and appreciate diverse cultures.
What are you most looking forward to experiencing with your son as he grows and develops?
In a funny way I can’t wait to see him try different tastes of foods and watch his expressions change. Of course, on a more serious note: I’m most looking forward to experiencing all the little moments of discovery and growth with my son as he learns about the world around him and develops into his own unique person. Every milestone and new experience is a joy to witness.
