Actor, tarot card reader, clairvoyant and Astrohealer Hansa Singh, who has been part of projects like Human, Criminal Justice 3, and the film Goodbye, feels the foundation of a healthy marriage is life, trust, and equality.
She said, “Marriage is about creating a beautiful world with love, trust, and equality. Over time, the definition of marriage has changed, if not evolved. In the ancient era, I believe we had a better understanding of marriage. As I see through my eyes and understanding, marriage is a beautiful world where two people come together in sharing their lives to create a world of love and living together in the right synergy.”
She believes that if one wants to keep their marriage fresh and kicking, romance needs to be there. “Sadly, we see that the word R of romance changes to routine, further deteriorating to rut. Why let go of the spark?” she added.
Hansa asserted that people take marriage for granted, and then it’s collateral damage. And the secret to a happy marriage is, “Simply keep the ‘Me Time’ and individuality alive. It’s always a thin line for that. The initial spark to keep it intact. If forgotten, try to revive it or rekindle it. Marriage is not just love but also a proactive sexual life. No partner should look out for comfort. Keep it going year after year. Bring joy with excursions and hobbies,” she said.
She looked up to her parents’ marriage and said, “As 50 glorious years of love, trust, respect, and being pillars of strength to each other despite all that’s different as individuals, Raising a beautiful family. Giving the best Sanskar to kids. We are united as a close-knit family, even with our ideological differences.”
Hansa concluded that having stayed alone for too long has shifted something in her. “I love all the bonhomie about marriage, the fineries, the rituals, dance, and drama. But to find the right person is a big asking. I can only talk about myself, yet the paradigm shift has happened in Gen Z given that they need to get married when all is easily available. Sadly so. Yet we see the beautiful and blissful union of two people in marriage, and that’s what keeps the hope alive. That all is not lost,” she shared.
